everyone has to bear the responsibilities of their own actions.
simply means, no one has to answer to anyone but yourselves.
i may be a really harsh person.
to almost everyone else.
it is a flaw in my character and probably the main reason for my temper.
but i never asked more than necessary.
for i see more than that.
if i do ask and you don't wish to tell, then just tell me so.
if i don't ask and you don't wish to tell, just leave it be.
there's no right and wrong in the options.
just as there's no reason, to feel the obligation to tell me.
i never felt i have to know every single thing in everyone's lives.
if you are willing to share, i'm always willing to listen.
if you aren't, don't insult me by thinking i will be angry.
i don't believe i'm so petty.
it becomes insulting and hurting when people closest to me still thinks so little of me.